He made me feel better about the experience, and we are still together two and a half years later." - Katie, 24Ĩ. He was so understanding and he said it was fine and that he wanted me to be okay, and that we didn't have to continue. I felt a little ashamed and embarrassed because I imaged something different and I thought he was disappointed in the experience. It was very painful to the point that I had to stop because I was in so much pain. He told me to relax and that we didn't have to continue if I didn't want to, but I did. I felt comfortable, but out of nowhere, I got really nervous. I don’t regret anything and for that I’m thankful." - Jennifer, 22ħ. I was really nervous, but he was patient and managed to make me feel comfortable and sexy, even. It was late at night and we were in the backseat of his car. I lost my virginity to someone I actually cared about, which doesn’t mean much to me looking back now, but it was important to me back then. And then 1-2 minutes later it was over." - Jasmyne, 21Ħ. It wasn't painful, but it honestly didn't feel like anything at all was happening. "It was after homecoming and we were just in his room. But other than that I think it was pretty perfect as far as virgins go." - Debby, 22ĥ. I was so incredibly nervous - I think we both were. "We were 17 and we needed a time when our parents weren’t home, so we waited until Christmas Eve when his parents had left for a holiday party. So to this day, she and I will text each other on October 30 to say happy anniversary." - Tory, 24Ĥ.
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Then, the next day, I found out one of my best friends also had sex for the first time that night.
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I got pretty drunk and had sex with one of my childhood friends (on his birthday) in the basement of his house. "I was a sophomore in high school and at a Halloween party. Then, he went to study abroad and we never spoke about it, until like 2 years later." - Bianca, 23ģ. I was 17, drunk at a beach concert, called a guy that we had an on and off thing and we had sex in the back of his pickup car.